Agenda of Introverts

Today's blog is about Introverts like me. At first, I am going to clear out the insignificant reasons why you should not judge us with the inconsiderate circumstances. Before learning about introverts (us), you should know what is an Introvert, right?

So from this conventional chapter of learning a topic from its core, we should know it from the definition indeed. 

• Introvert: - One whose personality is characterized by introversion; especially: a reserved or shy person, who enjoys spending time alone, is called an introvert.

While introverts make up an estimated 25 to 40 percent of the population, there are still many misconceptions about this personality type. It is also important to note that introversion is not the same thing as social anxiety or shyness. Being an introvert does not mean that you are socially anxious or shy.

There are many types of Introvert, and our circumference turned them into a categorize agenda. There's not just one way to be an introvert, Cheek now argues — rather, there are four shades of introversion: social, thinking, anxious, and restrained. And many introverts are a mix of all four types, rather than demonstrating one type over the others. So you should learn what the signs of the Introverts are first: 

1. Being around lots of people drains your energy. For that reason, you prefer to alone. You enjoy solitude. And you like to spend your effective time completely alone.
2. You are connected to your inner dialogue and prefer to consult yourself than others.
3. You have a small group of close friends. And it is more than enough to please you.
4. People often describe you as quiet and may find it difficult to get to know you.
5. Your way of living sometimes excluded the conventional ways of your society.
6. Too much stimulation leaves you feeling distracted and unfocused.
7. You are very self-aware. And you establish your self-respect above all traits.
8. You like to learn by watching more than interacting.
9. So you like jobs which fever your independence above all.
10. It is more likely you cherish yourself than your belongings.

And now I will say Introversion doesn't conclude shyness and it is different from that.

Introversion vs. Shyness

• It is important to note that introversion does not necessarily equate with shyness. In their book, The Development of Shyness and Social Withdrawal, authors Schmidt and Buss write, "Sociability refers to the motive, strong or weak, of wanting to be with others, whereas shyness refers to behavior when with others, inhibited or uninhibited, as well as feelings of tension and discomfort."
• However, introverts do appreciate being around people to whom they are close. They find engaging in "small talk" tedious but do enjoy having deep, meaningful conversations. Introverts also tend to think about things before talking. They want to have a full understanding of a concept before they voice an opinion or try to explain.

Quiet People Are Talkative Around The Right People

I am an introvert. This fact about myself wouldn't bother me in the least if not for the fact that so many people don't "get" me.

You see, sometimes it's really difficult to explain why I don't like doing certain things and why I would rather walk across fire than be in a large crowd.

It's especially difficult to explain this to someone who is not an introvert.

If you are an extrovert, don't take it personally when an introvert doesn't want to follow your ways in his livelihood and remember these 6 things if you are interested in an introvert.

• Introverts Value Listening

Introverts love to listen. It gives them a chance to get to know someone and understand them better.

Words are very important to them and, as such, introverts think before they speak.

They don't take words lightly and neither should you. Listening to an introvert is showing them you accept their ways.

• Introverts Love to Have Fun

Introverts are not boring people. Introverts have a sharp, witty sense of humor that they only share with the people they most trust.

They can act silly, crazy, be loud, and even sing out loud! Just because someone is quiet doesn't necessarily mean they are boring.

• Introverts Don't Like to Be the Center of Attention

Most introverts don't like all eyes to be on them. It can be difficult to speak up at a work meeting, deliver a speech, or answer a question in front of other people.

They typically like to listen to other people's perspectives and hear what they have to say.

It doesn't mean introverts don't have an opinion. Sometimes it's just difficult for them to articulate what they're thinking.

• Introverts Prefer Quiet Nights at Home

Introverts prefer to stay home on a holiday night. They may go out with friends, a party, or out to dinner, but they prefer to stay in and avoid the large crowds.

Introverts love spending quiet time alone with their partners.

You don't need to pay attention to them constantly for them to feel attached. Just being by their partner's side makes them happy.

• They Sometimes Wish They Were Extroverts

I sometimes wonder what it would be like to walk into a large group of people and instantly feel comfortable instead of wishing I were someplace else.

I always thought that it has to be cool to have that infectious energy that draws people to you.

I love myself as an introvert, but sometimes I wish I could live it up as an extrovert.

• Introverts Can Step Out of Their Comfort Zone

Introverts can be more extroverted for brief periods. But, he only does so for people who are truly special to them.

So, when they agree to go with you. They would love if you could balance that attention and interaction into a limited multitude.

The next day they may need time alone to recharge, and having support for that time will make them more willing to step out of their comfort zone again.

Misconceptions (Collected)

• In an excellent article in Atlantic Monthly, author Jonathan Rauch took on some of the common myths and misconceptions about introverts. While introverts are often labeled as shy, aloof, and arrogant, Rauch explains that these perceptions result from the failure of extroverts to understand how introverts function.
• "Extroverts have little or no grasp of introversion," Rauch suggests. "They assume that company, especially their own, is always welcome. They cannot imagine why someone would need to be alone; indeed, they often take umbrage at the suggestion. As often as I have tried to explain the matter to extroverts, I have never sensed that any of them understood."
• According to estimates, extroverts outnumber introverts by about three to one. Introverts often find that other people try to change them or even suggest that there is something "wrong" with them. Nothing could be further from the truth. While introverts make up a smaller portion of the population, there is no right or wrong personality type. Instead, both introverts and extroverts should strive to understand each other's differences and similarities.

So I am saying that it is not bad to be an introvert and believe me you are not alone in those circumstances. I, myself an Introvert, always face problems of my own. So without paying heed to the society, you should enjoy your own time and your traits of living above all. And, if you like these views of mine, please share this article in terms of awareness for those people who think it is miserable to be an Introvert.

Thank you for reading this, next week I am also going to write on an amazing topic concluding awareness. Until Next Time~